Saturday, October 16, 2010

Win Self Esteem

If our self esteem is low, we tend to us have the habit of picking on. Little self-criticism, give our thoughts constantly, and much of the time we are not aware, we do it! We just feel crumbly. It is simply a bad habit to get over itself, but as makes us sad and incompetent to do it limits us to what we do in life. If we do we notice even criticize, we can argue with the criticism and it helps. But if we each eveningonly three things you think we can find a good feeling about us, that's a long way to building a positive habit to us in view of the good, the bad instead of walk.

We deserve a better appreciation of self-determination. And the stronger we are, the more we can help others and want to help others, we should never feel guilty feel good about ourselves. It is not selfish. It is a big difference between healthy self-esteem and selfish orinsensitive to others. The egoist is generally not a good feeling about yourself. Your big words about themselves is a cover-up, how small they feel. Self-esteem is often silent. Someone with good self-esteem is not threatened by criticizing others. With healthy self-esteem they can laugh at their own mistakes, rather than mistakes they make you unhappy.

So at the end of each day in a journal to write at least three things that you've either today or waysAre you that things you have a good feeling or can be proud of. Perhaps someone or somehow has a good job, or a temptation resisted, or simply just did your best and tried, even if things do not turn out well. What things you admire in others? Do you have all these things today? What qualities you admire your parents? Take for them in one of these ways? Are there other ways that you chose not to be aware of? Have you avoided addictions or crime?We already have many qualities that we take for granted. You may have received a compliment or two today, or a thank you, and are subject to good things.

Write three things to start a night for a week and then try to make it a whole month. Each has value, every single day. You need three main things on these days to write, if you feel less good about yourself, but if you should miss a night, start again the next night. In a month you have a small collection. It can be agood thing to read again, if you feel low. And feel a marked difference in how you go through the day.

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