Friday, October 8, 2010

Six Keys to self-confidence

A young lady approached me after a recent customer service seminar and expressed a need to improve their self confidence. She thought her career prospects were limited by their personal insecurity. She also asked whether the process would work regarding partnership for them. How are those of you regular readers of this publication know, partnering can help any two people to be more successful in whatever they want to do. The good thing is that they are aware they will need to improve and has theDesire to improve. So of course I told her to process it and use the focusing its plan for the key to improving self-confidence.

Leave the past behind them. Do not get hang-up on past failures and disappointments. Often people rehash past failures and fail again, they forecast. The question everyone needs to answer is: What would I do if I could not help but know? A person can not repeat what they did yesterday, but they can change what they do tomorrow.

Think win the. AsPeople progress in their personal goals to improve, they must look at the small successes and celebrate them. Obstacles hindering progress, as they are overcome, they will promote greater trust. It's a good idea to keep a journal to visit from service if it feels like little progress has been made. It is the experience, good and bad, that builds confidence.

Gain knowledge. One of the best ways is to strengthen confidence equip themselves withKnowledge. The more knowledge acquired ... the stronger the self-confidence. Learn more about the profession you have chosen to learn more about your company
Products and services, more about the people that surround you, everything about your customers, and more about people in general.

Hang with the Eagles. It is probably easier, like an eagle when they get surrounded by nothing as turkeys. However, if a person time with people who are more confident than they spend, it is quitelikely to improve their own self-confidence.
How many people are my notes on the golf course better when I golf with players who have superior ability in itself. Maybe I concentrate more. Maybe I'm concentrating on my game more. Or maybe I just try everything.

Go for the low-hanging fruit. When building self confidence for opportunities, looking, to be successful. In the planning process to set achievable short-term goals to help build confidence. It is important to avoid,Uncertainty. For example: a person that improve their presentation skills and overcome their fear of speaking may do you want someone like-to-one presentations-from trusted friends. The second step could be to join Toastmasters or visit a Dale Carnegie class. After developing their skills, then they may ask if they could further presentations to customers or management team to do.

Start the day off well. I'll be the first to tell you, it sounds a little ridiculous, but itwork. Start each day with positive affirmations, how confident you are becoming. And, believe it! Literally, look yourself in the mirror and you say that your confidence is better. These positive messages will strengthen the other actions you have taken to strengthen confidence in your self.

The Earl of Chatham, William Pitt, in 1766 said that "confidence is a plant growth, slow." Confidence can not quickly or easily accessible. It requiresDetermination, a well-thought-out plan, and a partner for support, feedback and encouragement. Find these six keys to improving self-confidence with others, and can improve growth by partnering for success.

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