Your Self Improvement Foundation
Imagine this: You came to the meeting thoroughly prepared, ready to give your best. While giving your presentation, you cut someone suddenly in the middle, ask some stupid questions. It could have been easy for you to take a counter-punch, a stupid answer. The problem is that stupid person is your boss. What a difficult situation!
So how do you stay calm, composed and maintain self-esteem in a toughEnvironment?
Have you ever played bowling? Or at least were familiar with the game? It is usually played with ten pins arranged in an orderly manner. The player throws a ball at a time, hoping to knock down all ten every throw.
Come with me to the wonderland of visualization. . . Let's go to your favorite bowling alley, and develop a strong self-confidence while playing psychological Bowling. In this world, set the rules, and of course play to win. Here we playwith five balls and a pin, throw the ball a-at-a-time and. . .
. . . suddenly you realize that you caused the pin, and all other the ball ready for you. These balls destroy your self-esteem and break for ways you yourself do not remember. Yes, you will be destroyed, but only if you let them. Remember, this is your world, and you're here to win. Do not destroy or get the best of you. You always have the option not tobe taken.
So, you should avoid the balls?
Ball # 1: Negative Environment
Be aware of "dog-eat-dog" theory where everyone else is fighting just to get ahead. There is too much politics in this type of environment. This is not grateful as they grow normally, and says the writing on the wall: ".. If I'm right, no one remembers When I am wrong no one forgets" No one appreciates your contributions even if you miss lunch or dinner, or long stay up only until the end of yourApplication to. Most of the time you left on your own - you get too much work, without the aid of those affected.
If you do not learn from this how to deal with it. Otherwise it will ruin your self-esteem. Be careful to know, that competition is at stake anywhere. Be healthy enough to compete, but is in a healthy competition that.
Ball # 2: the behavior of other people
Bulldozers, brown Noseworthy, gossipmongers, whiners, Backstabbers, snipers, people walking wounded,Controls, whiners complain, Exploder, patronize, knives. . . all these kinds of people constitute bad mood for your self-esteem and your self improvement scheme. These are down that you devaluation tend to move into a morass of low morale and self-determination. Be aware guard, and.
Ball # 3: World in Transition
Everything is in movement, change, transformation. You need to go to the change. You can not put a square peg into a round hole! Changing challengesParadigms. It tests our flexibility, adaptability and change our way of thinking. A lot of people see change as a restraining force. I would rather see as a catalyst for improvement -. Change makes life difficult for a while, it creates temporary stress necessary to move forward to compel us. Change is the twin city of man factor. Without it, life has no meaning. Accept change as inevitable, and learn how to manage it well.
Ball # 4: things of the past
It is okay to cry andsay, "Ouch!" if we can feel pain. But do not let the painful experiences of a mental cage of fear we often create call named "Trauma". It grabs you sure swing by the tail and look around. Treat each mistake and failure as a lesson to be learned. Remember, there is no such thing as failure - only lead. Keep this goal in mind and see the mistakes of the past with a look of triumph, knowing you will never be the same make in the future.
Ball # 5: Your own view of theWorld
Look at what you see. Do not wrap yourself with all the negativity in the world. In building self esteem, you need to learn how to make the best of situations, from the worst. While some react by building fortresses to protect them, creating other bridges connect. Which group do you belong?
Life Is What You Make It
You will notice there are those negative thinkers are born, while others are born positive thinkers. FALSE. As positive, and stayingpositive, the choice - not an innate talent. Sometimes one wonders why some people are born lucky and sometimes you wonder why others are even born. Not. To create your own luck. You mark your own life. Life is what you make it.
In life it is hard to get, especially when it comes to the crunch - when events and people move around you down. But that's not reason enough to stop. If you go into battle, he does not go there, as is, where. Instead, you should prepare byto bring the appropriate equipment, the right arsenal for future use. It determines the success or negative result, while encounter in actual combat.
Life is exactly the same. Nobody comes into this world completely and with all the best. We all start with specific handicaps, in our attitude, behavior, thinking. As you go through life, you will be a variety of options, and the power to choose is presented to you. you can choose to remain disabled and mediocre, or you can decideto improve and become excellent.
Building self esteem will eventually lead to self improvement if we start the forever we are who, what we do and what we become. It is like a flame that should gradually spread like a bush fire "from the inside out. If we develop self esteem, we take control of our mission in life, the values that we love, and a character reflective of our personal integrity.
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ReyMisol is the author of "Self Improvement & Success: Your 7-Day Self - Improvement and Success Program" - "How do" it ebook on self-development. An order your free copy, visit: http://www.leadersladder .org / selfimprov_success.html
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