I am sure that I am not alone in the fact that I have a large army of demons in my head. These demons are always talking with me and trying to advise me how to react to it in different situations. For many years I listened and took their advice, not those years were just happy and I have now realized that these demons are not my friends, but really my enemy.
I had many problems in my life, my reputation had a negative impact on levels of self. The demon uses athese questions come to me and to play their thoughts. For this article I will describe my stuttering demons and how I finally destroyed. The advice can be used for any kind of demons you may have to be used.
At the age of four, I developed a stutter which would continue to influence my speech for the next eighteen years of my life. I was aware of what I could and could not say, and was also aware of the social situations in which I was more likely to stutter.
When I asked aQuestion as a friend, I think the answer but before I get a chance to say it seems to have a voice. This voice or what I call my demons would advise me not to say that word and replace it for another word.
If I were to say invited to a party, my demons would advise me not to go, as if there were a lot of people be there that I do not know. You would recall that I speak the difficult people I knew not found.
At one point in myLife, I decided that I wanted a career change because I was not happy in the role I was on my demons reminded me that to find another job again throughout the interview process. They sat that I had always struggled to speak fluently to interviews by the pressure factor.
I could very well when I was drunk and that is when I speak to talk to the ladies' confidence. On several occasions, a woman gave me her phone numberand I would tell them that I would call it is one night. The next day, but when sober he would remind me of the demons that a phone conversation is what I find the hardest form of speech task and simply do not bother.
As mentioned earlier, I have to hear these demons, and suffice it to say that I'm not on my first day until I was eighteen years old.
Things were, and were about to change. After reading many self-help books, I realized what I had donewrong. I should not listen to this demon, in fact, I need to do is the opposite of what they tell me. Steve not to go to this party, OK, then I will. Steve phone on the lady, OK I will, etc.
I am not trying to say that this easy to do. I am happy to say that I speak my demons wiped out and now I'm fluent, but I still demons in other areas of my life. There are not nearly as many as in the past been, and I am slowly killing hopefullyall.
I treat her like a war. There are many battles and I must say that I do not win them all. I'm talking to my demons all the time and especially if they win one of these type of battles. I tell them that they have won this particular battle, but I want to win the general war.
You can possibly think that I am a bit of a freak after reading this article. I truly can not care, I'm happier than I ever before.
Good luck in your quest to improve their own lives.
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