Surrender

The Encarta ® World English Dictionary defines "abandon" as: ". To take care of someone or something to leave behind for others, especially meant something or someone to a personal responsibility"

As adults, our own well-being of our personal responsibility.

They rely instead making others responsible for you, and then feel abandoned by others when they leave or accept any responsibility for you?

As an adult, another person can not abandon,because they are not responsible for you. We can give a child, a sick person or an old person - someone who can not take place take care of themselves. But if you are a physically healthy adults, you can turn left, but you can not be abandoned by others. Only you can let them down.

What are the possibilities of waiver could be himself?

ADDRESSED IN

How many times have you judge yourself with comments like, for example:

"You're not good enough." "You are inadequate."
"You're stupid.""You're an idiot."
"You're ugly." "They are not attractive enough."
"If you do not you okay."
"If someone rejects you, you're not okay."
"It's all your fault that ...."
"You will never know. You're a failure. If you are not up to your potential."

... And so on.

As a small child feels alone and abandoned when a parent is hard-judgmental, and so our own inner child feels alone and abandoned when you judge yourself. Self Judgementnot only creates inner feelings of loneliness and emptiness, but it also creates feelings of anxiety, depression, anger, pain, anxiety, guilt and shame. And what do you do when you assess yourself and create all these painful feelings?

IGNORING YOUR FEELINGS

If you feel alone, empty, anxious, depressed, hurt, angry, jealous, sad, anxious, guilty or ashamed - what do you do? You care about your feelings, to explore what you say to yourself, or cause them to do? Or do you wantavoid them with some form of addictive behavior with food, alcohol, drugs, nicotine, television, work, shop, internet, sex, anger, guilt, and so on, to avoid them?

If you ignore your feelings and instead turn addictive behavior, you will again rely on. Once you rely on, it is very common to other self-surrender on this project and feel abandoned by God or by man. But, as a physically healthy adults, is the feeling of abandonment is caused byThey, like most of your other painful feelings are caused by you.

We others responsible for IT

As soon as you judge yourself and then you ignore the pain you have caused, it is quite likely that you will then turn to others for the love and respect that you do not give themselves. Your inner child - the feeling a part of you - needs love, acceptance and attention. When you place yourself with your self-judgments and ignore the feelings, the wounded child part of youturns to others for the love you need. Because the child is a part of you desperately need for love, you have become likely that manipulative to get love - getting angry and blame, or are overly nice or compliant and try to make everything right. Your inner child away to others was to believe in the hope of another person you give the love you so desperately need. They are addicted to approval, attention and / or sex.

The more you make others responsible for showing you theLove, attention and approval that you need, the child feels left inside of you, more addictive behavior to fill emptiness and avoid the pain of what your self-sacrifice.

To start the way out of this, attention must be paid to your feelings - the attention put on your body, instead of the outside always focused. The moment you feel bad, notice what you think or do, that the cause of your pain. Their painful feelings that come from your thoughts, your innerControl system the way of letting you know, not what you think true, and is not in your highest good.

Ask the highest part of himself: "What is truth?" Notice how you feel when you are on your feelings and you are not telling the truth, you judge yourself, ignore, and make others responsible for your feelings.