There is a difference between a) not want to disappoint others, and b) the fear of disappointing others.
The first is based on the heart felt desire to honor the other and respect the wishes of the best of their ability without sacrificing while their own self-esteem, self worth and self esteem.
The latter is based on fear are the result be that you become so self-evident, that they sacrifice, to play the roles start dishonestto everyone's needs, but to fulfill their own. This leads to the famous play "Chameleon" scenario by Woody Allen in one of his films. Chameleons will do everything to be liked, if it takes lying to other resources.
Such individual essentially has no meaning itself and acts and feels like a scam deep inside. They also feel a deep sense of fear discovered to be on. This fear is helping them to continue the charade to keep others happy. All the while, that person's heartand their lives have withered away.
The chameleon syndrome often results from the individual carrying out a number of negative memories of early experiences that convince them that his authentic self is dangerous to their survival. Such memories are like computer programs that harass internally that individual if they have a desire to be honest. Of course this means that they "deceived" lie to themselves and others. If, however, to survive, is auntenable strategy because it undermines individual self-esteem, self-esteem, confidence and drains their life energy from the.
In other words, it kills them!
In order to achieve this freedom from this prison, to recover self-control and self-respect is it necessary to uninstall the total negative memories programmed. This is now possible with a process that I have occupied for over a decade, so-called Mind Resonance Process ®(MRP).
